Self respect

Hi fellows, today we are gonna talk about self-respect. I will try to solve your problems and answer your questions according to my observations in this post.

So let's start, 

What is self-respect?

The tendency to control your emotions and not let them control you and disrespect you in front of others can be termed as self-respect. Always Remember you are a son/daughter to a mother who kept you in her womb for 9months, so never let her pains result in a child with no care of his/her self respect.

 Buddies, I have seen a lot of people begging for friendships, relationships and crying for break downs in relations. Most of us, while impressing our crush, don't even think of our parents' hard works and let them take our self-respect away as we do beg for their love. You should never beg for someone's love because who wants to give will give you love even without you asking for it and the one who doesn't want to give won't even if you do anything for them. 

Your self-respect is very important in your life because it makes your character. If you will beg for relations, you will lose your self-respect. And losing your self-respect will result in building you a weak character, but you have to be is to be a strong character. Your life and this world are full of people there a lot of people whom you want to care for you but they won't because you don't stand on the conditions on which they judge people. So don't give them any attention and be yourself, because to make someone like you doesn't mean you have to change yourself if you don't stand on their conditions, then it's their mistake that they are losing such a precious friend or precious partner like you. 

You all pals are perfect in your own way, you don't have to modify yourself to makes someone like you because your self-respect is the most important thing. When you lose your self-respect, you won't be respected again, the reason behind this is because you lost your self-respect it created a bad image of you in front of others and then it will take a long time again to build your self-respect. For example, you are proposing someone and that person denies but then also you are pleading for the relation, this will destroy your self-respect and that person will surely spread it to others and then most of your mates will start making fun of you, so this is like it all happens, it took years to create but destroyed in seconds.

If you don't find my above reasons valid for not losing your self-respect, then once just think of your mom who withstood all your pain for nine months and still cares for you, your father wants his eyes to see a successful child whom he flourished all his life with every possible thing he can afford. Your parents are a part of your self-respect. If you lose your self-respect it will create a portrayal of you in other's visions that you are a child to such parents who forgot to give moral values and self-esteem to their children. Everyone won't question you for losing your self-respect, they will question your parents for this, So at least guys maintain your self-respect for the ones who allowed you to come and enjoy on this earth, who gave life to you, who gave a chance to you to prove yourself in front of this world, your parents and never let them down. Signing off buddies, appreciate yourself and make your parents proud and pleased.

                            -Siddhant