Guys, guys so that's the topic you all must be truly waiting for, so impressing your crush, allies crush is someone whom you love with your full engagement, and you find each and every moment of your life joyful with them. They are just like the summers in your winters, like jam to your bread and the cherry on your cake. The time you spend with them is the time of the day when you feel the most precious and special and even their talks are stress-relieving to you. Your crush is someone in whom you can find yourself or someone whom you want the characteristics in yourself too.
So, the first thing you guys need to remember is always to be yourself, cause if you are changing yourself for someone, you are never required to be different for someone. Be yourself, because you can't remain changed for a long time, you will become yourself in some time and that would affect your relation adversely.
Second thing, your ego, never let your ego come in way of your crush and yourself. Your ego is something that can create patches in your relations. Like for example if you and your friend or crush are having some fight or some issue, if you have your ego you will just ignore everything, every love, care, and affection, you will forget everything, your ego will come and will destroy your relationship badly. So try to remove your ego, slowly you will lose all your ego and would be able to be an egoless person. Then no one can stop anyone form like you!
Third thing, your possessiveness, your possessiveness is fine but too much of it will again affect your relationship adversely. Because your relation means that you love and trust that person, you don't have to restrict your friend's or crush's liberation. You will have to trust him/her because if they care for you, they will never go no matter whatever happens. This results in creating strong bonds that manufacture purest relations.
Fourth thing, your overreacting, never overreact in a relation because overreacting can even make situations worse. If you overreact in a relation, this will extend the issue more. Like if you had a fight, and the other person is regretting, and you overreact, the situation even gets worse. But, instead, if you just forgive and talk to him/her, the situation will get the best and you will spend some more sweet moments. The relation will get better if you don't overreact.
Fifth thing, you always should try to make your crush feel loved and precious. Tell your crush their importance and your life. And your crush is making your life worth living and things like this that make your crush feel the best in the world. Explain your crush that you are blessed to have him/her.
And from all the above things, I wanted to tell you that never make your friend or crush feel that you are just sharing your problems, also make them feel happy and make them feel good. They are spending time for you guys and if you guys fight with them, you are hurting them, fighting is fine but never let it hurt them. So guys never hurt your friend or crush and never do something that destroys your relations. Have happy relations comrades😀
-Siddhant
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